Richard Procida, an attorney and academic author, has published a new article in the Centre for Male Psychology magazine that explores the phenomenon of 'de facto polygyny' and its psychological consequences for men. The piece, titled 'Some guys have all the luck'. Bachelorette Parties, Lonely Boys, and De Facto Polygyny, argues that contemporary mating markets concentrate female attention on a smaller number of high-value men, leaving many average men excluded from relationships and facing elevated levels of loneliness and diminished social networks.
Procida's analysis, available at the Centre for Male Psychology magazine, suggests that this dynamic functions as a form of polygyny, where a minority of men monopolize romantic and sexual opportunities. The article highlights measurable psychological impacts, including increased risks to men's mental health, and points to broader societal implications as a growing cohort of men experience prolonged exclusion from intimate relationships.
In addition to his work on mating markets, Procida has addressed political and cultural polarization in his article 'The Polarization Trap' at LA Progressive. That piece, accessible at LA Progressive, examines how polarized thinking, particularly around gender and social issues, entrenches opposing sides and impedes constructive dialogue. Procida argues that such divisions exacerbate societal fragmentation and hinder mutual understanding.
Procida, who authored 'Social Issues in Global Perspective: Pornography' (Lexington Books), is available for media interviews and public speaking engagements on these topics. His commentary spans male loneliness, singlehood, mental health, modern mating trends, and the psychological effects of exclusion from intimate relationships. He also addresses political and cultural polarization, including gender-related divides, offering insight into the underlying social dynamics.
The importance of Procida's work lies in its potential to inform public discourse on two pressing issues: the mental health crisis among men and the erosion of civil discourse. By linking mating market dynamics to psychological outcomes, his research provides a framework for understanding and potentially mitigating the harms associated with relationship exclusion. Similarly, his analysis of polarization suggests pathways for reducing social conflict through greater awareness and empathy.
As these topics gain traction in public debate, Procida's contributions offer a scholarly perspective that could influence policy discussions, mental health interventions, and community initiatives aimed at fostering social cohesion.
